Data and information is influenced by the lens through which we process that information.
Seeking additional information is a very indulgent way to look responsible in the face of uncertainty or fear.
This year can be different.
You need to do two things. Just two things!
There was no piece of pie for me. I was desperately struggling to carve out what felt like even 1% of the pie for myself.
Do not dismiss that inner voice. Do not dismiss yourself.
How you feel about something is only derived from what you think about it.
There is no such thing as being locked into a certain personality or style.
Learn to be "all in" in any situation, and you learn an incredible job skill that will serve you throughout your career.
Opportunities for giving intangible gifts are all around us.
The most effective (not necessarily the easiest!) way to decide how to get around obstacles in your path.
"In all affairs it's a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted."
Find a healthier and more growth-mindset approach to trial and error on the job.
Determine for yourself how and when to use your voice to best serve you.
If you've made it this far, welcome to the hard part. Welcome to execution.
Acknowledge your history and circumstances, proactively address potential pitfalls, and follow through more than you ever have before.
Asking why is powerful.
Describe the condition of your work, education, parenting, life, etc. that you want. Let that be your anchor and then build decisions that get you ever closer to that condition, regardless of the exact circumstances and all the possible wrenches that might be thrown your way. This is called a desired outcome.
“I don’t know what I want.” I hear that a lot.
I developed the Aurelian Coaching Model based on my own experience.