Everything is not important! Let’s review important vs urgent
Everything is not – cannot possibly be – important.
Everything is not – cannot possibly be – important.
Burnout results from focusing too much on process and not enough on outcomes. Burnout is getting lost in minutiae. Burnout is focusing on just what is being thrown in your face instead of taking what is thrown and evaluating it through the lens of what you’re ultimately trying to accomplish. The cure to burnout is …
The first step is to recognize burnout, because many would reject the term, yet experience all the signs and symptoms.
Double loop learning assumes that there is something to be gained and improved by evaluating what was going on in your head.
If you are a manager or team lead, then asking questions of your team needs to be a well-honed skill. Here are three methods of using questions to keep in your tool belt.
There’s no such thing as a dumb question, sure, but there’s also an opportunity to ask better questions.
As long as there are no violations with HR or someone’s confidence, err on the side of sharing to realize the benefits of transparency in your teams.
So you are on board with the idea of being more transparent! Fantastic! So… what exactly should you be sharing?
This level of transparency may feel scary at first, but managed well, it can be a total game changer in getting results.
It’s just giving you a page of words to stare at… and still feel undecided.
Once the information is in front of you, decide what is useful and actionable, vs just interesting but not helpful.
That is not really a plan. That’s simply a well-positioned series of steps.
When considering how to be an effective advocate, ask yourself these questions.
The value of management rests in achieving an outcome of optimal effectiveness, sustained over time.
The specialization often required at higher and higher levels of performance means that it is less and less likely that a position can be filled with someone who has done the exact same things in their past. Expertise, then, is at a premium.
I would never suggest that these concepts are mutually exclusive. But neither are they the same.
It’s amazing to me how many people really believe they have a crystal ball.
Risk and uncertainty are not interchangeable. They mean totally different things.
If you haven’t had a spectacular fail in the last year, you haven’t even given yourself the opportunity to learn anything.
Despite the day to day tensions and nastiness that my mom might have endured in the corporate world as an immigrant and woman in the early 1980s, I grew up hearing a story of a very different tone.
Be careful that you are not putting the metrics themselves ahead of the strategic intent.
What is the worst that can happen if you change course? The answer is not what you might think.
Understand which situation an instrument should be applied.
Data and information is influenced by the lens through which we process that information.
Seeking additional information is a very indulgent way to look responsible in the face of uncertainty or fear.
There was no piece of pie for me. I was desperately struggling to carve out what felt like even 1% of the pie for myself.
How you feel about something is only derived from what you think about it.
There is no such thing as being locked into a certain personality or style.
Learn to be “all in” in any situation, and you learn an incredible job skill that will serve you throughout your career.
The most effective (not necessarily the easiest!) way to decide how to get around obstacles in your path.
“In all affairs it’s a healthy thing now and then to hang a question mark on the things you have long taken for granted.”
Find a healthier and more growth-mindset approach to trial and error on the job.
If you’ve made it this far, welcome to the hard part. Welcome to execution.
Acknowledge your history and circumstances, proactively address potential pitfalls, and follow through more than you ever have before.
Describe the condition of your work, education, parenting, life, etc. that you want. Let that be your anchor and then build decisions that get you ever closer to that condition, regardless of the exact circumstances and all the possible wrenches that might be thrown your way. This is called a desired outcome.
I developed the Aurelian Coaching Model based on my own experience.